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If there is one thing for certain, disappointment is a part of dating. Most people are in denial of this realization. They believe that they are going to join an online dating service and magically "the right one" will show up immediately. Many have that...

When you are dating and cannot seem to find the right person, sometimes it is because of a hidden benefit that you get from staying single.  This idea is typically unconscious and can sabotage your dating experience.  Most people do not know what blocks them...

Our lives are nothing but one pattern after another.  Being creatures of habit, we tend to like the same things and are also always being drawn to the same situations and people.  No matter what job I had, I always had a boss that did...

Many singles think they want a relationship, but are really afraid of commitment and intimacy with someone who really cares for them. These hidden fears from past hurts and possible abuse have put an armor of protection around their heart. They reject available men who...

Can hypnosis really help you feel sexier, more attractive and a magnet to men?  The answer is absolutely yes!  When you are feeling good, you stand taller, look thinner and carry yourself differently.  The subconscious automatically adjusts your posture, your facial expressions and your tone...

In my last post, I discussed projections and how the people you date are just a mirror to your own belief system.  Let's think about this in terms of one date.  What happens to you when you have a first date with someone?  Listen to...

The most common relationship issue I see in my practice is the impatience of daters.  Singles post their profile on match.com or other online dating services and expect to meet only wonderful, attractive, incredible single women and men.  Unfortunately, singles have to weed through...

There are so many different opinions about the movie, "The Secret." My hypnotherapy clients use me as a relationship resource and have mixed results with the law of attraction because of some unconscious blocks to love. Yes, people can visualize your soulmate and think positive,...

Hello, My name is Debra Berndt and welcome to my new blog.  I am a hypnotherapist who has designed The Dating Makeover program to help singles change their subconscious mind to attract the love of their life.  Single into my 40's, I couldn't figure out...