Most single people have a list of the qualities that they are looking for in a partner.  Some have it written down and others have it in their minds.  If you do not have it written down, it is a good exercise to do.  I...

On dates, many people can be anxious about whether the other person finds them attractive or interesting.  This may result in you trying too hard to impress and telling too much about yourself (this goes for men and women).  You may notice this when you...

My coupled friends used to always give me reassurance that "my guy was on his way." I tried to believe them but, after six years without a serious relationship, a strong sense of hopelessness was churning inside. After years of feeling sorry for myself, I...

In all areas of life, but especially in dating, women are always sizing themselves up to the crowd. Who is the skinniest, who is the prettiest, who is the most successful in the room? We constantly compare ourselves to everyone else, wondering if we measure...

Susan was excited about her date that evening.  She spoke to Brian a few times on the phone and felt an instant connection.  She called her girlfriends and her mom to announce that she finally had a date with a guy that could be the...

One time or another, we all had an experience of jealousy in our romantic life.  Whether we were cheated on, left for someone else or simply found ourselves competing with a girlfriend for the attention of single man, it is an ugly feeling.  Jealousy makes...

When I was single, I was always waiting for a man to come along to take care of me and save me from my lonely life.  Although I had many great friends and my social life was busy, I still had an empty feeling as...

This information is based on Neurolinguistic Programming or NLP.  You can tell alot about a person by paying attention to their eye movements.  Neurological studies have shown that eye movements seem to be associated with activating different parts of the brain.  We unconsciously know when...

Everything you do when dating is your choice. Some women believe that their fate lies in the hands of the man, waiting for him to accept her into his life. You can never win in such a submissive position. The source of this insecure behavior...