18 Mar Free Dating Advice for Singles Looking for Love
The most common relationship issue I see in my practice is the impatience of daters. Singles post their profile on match.com or other online dating services and expect to meet only wonderful, attractive, incredible single women and men. Unfortunately, singles have to weed through the married men, the creepy people and the desperados. Many of my clients ask me if I think online dating is wierd. The advice I give them is to date and have fun. Use the dating system to interview prospects. The more people you meet, the more you learn about yourself and what you want in a life partner.
Interestingly, most of my clients who finally decided to join a dating service ended up meeting their mate in some other way. It is as though they send the message out to the universe that they were ready and the person just showed up. There are many reasons why single women and men block love from coming into their life that they are not conscious of. Being a certified hypnotherapist, I work with many singles and their dating woes only to discover deep subconscious beliefs that are holding them back. Until the blocks are cleared, they continue to repeat the same patterns. How they think about dating, themselves and their potential mate is a habit. If their current state of thinking is not giving them the results they want, it is time to change those thoughts. The most effective way to change the habit of thinking is through self-hypnosis. Self-hypnosis relaxes the critical mind that rejects things and allows new, updated information flow into the inner mind which is the reservior of all patterns of thought. Just like water in a well, if you want good drinking water, you need to purify the water below.
Enabling a solid foundation of self-confidence, patience and clarity on what you are looking for can draw love into your life much sooner. A new pattern of relationship will emerge and the partnership will last.